if have same interest in particular field... i think that will make both party easy to communicate... age is not a problem i think... to be able to communicate and sharing is important...

(09-21-2009 12:11 AM)igreen Wrote:  dfefine your old? is 3 months older than partners and 5days older than partner also consider old???
it seems nowsaday becames a trend but it still cannot be accepted by asian included me... wahahah..

at least 2 years older...

hmm..i'm surprised that this topic has been brought up by a guy..and discussed by guys... haha...so interesting~!

Anyway, age is a quite important factor to me,generally I would prefer someone who's older. not 1 day or 2 days...i'm talking bout 3 yrs and above. BUT then again, there should also be exceptional cases if there's a younger man who is matured enough to carry himself well as a gentleman. ( *need to send them to siukeong bootcamp first *)

Well, as the saying goes, the older they are, the wiser they become. True enough, applies to both men & women. So the choice is per-individual actually. As they all said it, communication is the key.

Gne, thanks for repsponding to this thread.

Don't be surprised..Few guys I meet, they did raise their concern on this issue. As their aged caught up, they are worry to look for the potential girl to be their spouse because the gap of ages...

er..carl, they are guys..why are they worried? Younger girls look for older men most of the time...

Ok, here's the problem. Have the couple(male younger/female older) tot of their future? Are they truly in love or issit lust of a moment? Do love changes when ppl aged? As women looks old faster than men, can the male accept living with an auntie and when the wife reaches 45 years old while you are still a young stallion with raging hormone? Will the male go out and flirt cos can't face his auntie looking wife(wong min poh)...???

Some said man marry younger women cos women lives a longer life than man. Average man dies at 78 where else women at 88. If yr wife is 10 years younger than you, at 78 you will be living with a 68 years old women. At 50, your wife is 40 and so forth. But if yr wife is 10 years older, at 40 you will be living with a 50 years old auntie......hehee....