(02-21-2009 07:16 PM)aircraft Wrote:  then go call ur fren up and call her an idiot

Don't you think she is if she go on and insist that she need to shop......Hey! Look ! A working women with 5 kids and a bungalow to take care of .... it will be most difficult to find the time for herself if her priority is her family. Obviously, the priority is only on herself.

(02-22-2009 04:43 AM)hushbabbie Wrote:  

(02-21-2009 03:17 PM)TANNY Wrote:  Shopping is one thing but if shopping started to upset your spouse then is another thing.... If spouse ok with it...... hey.... why not... a branded handbag a day? No problem. But if it started to upset your the other half... isn't it time that you should for at least get control of yourself.

What I'm saying whether you are a man or a women.... whatever activities that you stuck to and suddenly started to upset your the other half.... shouldn't you for at least step back a bit for both to have some space to breath instead of sticking at each other throat.

Good point, but who is going to make the first move?

Glad that you agree with me.... I don't know what forumer got to say but to me as long as you stay under my roof you have to follow my rules. Just like if you go to foreign country you should follow their law. If you are not happy doing so , have your own country lah.

So who should make the first move?

My ex used to ask me to stop spending too much last time. But I didnt listen, ended up broke up.I feel like I'm more pathetic than this girl.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GDRvco5GA...e=youtu.be

lol...this thread brings back memories ...i have a few posts early on giving tips and advice when I wasnt married.

But now that im actually married...fuh difficult to walk the talk.

BBphire...sorry to hear your situation.

to maintain a good relationship with your love one, u must call her whenever u free.. i learnt my lesson after seeing this story... so dun make him or her regret.. start appreciate her now.. call her !

http://xpax.com.my/video/1/